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Deana L – relationship and career coaching
https://youtu.be/fbtdMOLC5YY When Deana first came to see me, she was working as a Community Outreach police officer and had grown increasingly unhappy and dissatisfied with her job. She took excellent care of her own health and her body and saw a lot of self-neglect...
How To Rebuild Your Life While Going Through A Painful Divorce Or Breakup.
Why Is Divorce So Painful? We have all been told the stories about how romantic love is supposed to be…we fall head over heels and then it lasts forever. We also add the belief…if it lasts, then it’s real. We even assess the value based on the length of time we've...
Dealing With Lack Of Appreciation?
What Causes A Lack of Appreciation? Here is a typical scenario I often hear… The husband is constantly complaining how hard he has to work, “I have to put in more hours every day composing emails, when I used to just be able to walk down the hall and talk to people....
Are You Feeling Judged?
Are You Judgmental? I’ve been noticing a common theme among my clients lately. “I can’t believe….” “He shouldn’t be…” “She thinks she is so…” “I’m so…” I am sure you can fill in the blanks! There is so much judgment towards other people and judgment of ourselves. My...
Why Is Spontaneity Important?
THE POWER OF BEING SPONTANEOUS I was so excited for my first ever road trip across the US with my fiancé, John. At the start of our trip, the coronavirus was a big issue in China, but had not really caused much in the way of big changes in the US yet. We had planned...
What I Learned From Tragedy Built Emotional Resilience
One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself. ~Leonardo Da Vinci What Is Emotional Resilience? I learned some hard lessons last year, the first being that life changes in an instant. My fiancé, Craig, left one morning for the dentist, had a...
How Do Attachment Styles Affect My Relationship?
How Does Your Attachment Style Affect Your Relationship? In my last post I shared with you the psychology of how and why we attach to our romantic partners in much the same way we did with our parents. I also think it would be helpful for you to understand your...
Attachment Styles In Relationships
Have You Heard Of The Attachment Style Theory? I have just finished reading the book Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller and found it super helpful in understanding why some people are hyper-focused on intimacy and others push it away. Dependency Is Not A Bad...
What Gets A Man To Fall In Love And Stay In Love?
So many women get wrong what makes a man fall in love with you and what makes him leave, so I wanted to share with you what I learned from Alison Armstrong of UnderstandMen.com I think men may also find this not only fascinating, but enlightening…. What Is The Right...
Most Common Relationship Problems and Solutions
People typically come to see me when they are in the middle of a huge transition time and their relationship is often the catalyst. Having worked with so many people, I see common patterns and trends based on the type of relationship they are in. I learned from my...