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HOW TO HANDLE FEAR

HOW TO HANDLE FEAR

HOW TO HANDLE FEAR When fears shows up I suggest you...   ALLOW IT When you feel fear you go into the fight or flight response, which evolved over millions of years to prepare our body for action. It gives you quick reflexes, the pumping of muscles, heightened...

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Understanding Fear

Understanding Fear

UNDERSTANDING FEAR IN OURSELF AND OTHERS Imagine you were taught that squirrels were the most dangerous animals in the world. Squirrels have razor sharp teeth that could tear you apart. They love nothing more than killing and eating humans. They can jump higher than...

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GET CLEAR ON YOUR VALUES TO REACH YOUR GOALS

GET CLEAR ON YOUR VALUES TO REACH YOUR GOALS

DO YOU COMPROMISE YOUR VALUES TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS? Most self help books and courses focus on goal-setting to cultivate confidence, success and peak performance. But if you want the best chance of achieving your goals, then you need to get clear on your values first....

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What You Can Do To Tame Your Crazy Thoughts

What You Can Do To Tame Your Crazy Thoughts

Wanted to share with you a story of a client who came to me for help to tame her crazy thoughts. Here is her story in her own words... Totally Untamed I began feeling anxious beginning back in high school. I was very worried that I wouldn't make it into college, get a...

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How To Be Successful At Life

How To Be Successful At Life

How To Be Successful At Life: Don't Fall Into The Success Trap Our society generally defines success in terms of fame, fortune, status and respect from having a prestigious job, handsome/beautiful spouse, luxury car and large home. When and if you achieve these things...

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How To Deal With Performance Anxiety

How To Deal With Performance Anxiety

How To Deal With Performance Anxiety If you've seen the new movie The Revenant, you witnessed the horrific conditions Leonardo DiCaprio had to endure while filming... From sleeping in an animal carcass to eating raw bison liver and swimming in freezing rivers. I am...

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Understanding Performance Anxiety

Understanding Performance Anxiety

Understanding Performance Anxiety Suppose you could unhook from all your thoughts about how bad or unpleasant fear is and how much you hate it? All it would take is being able to nonjudgmental notice the physical sensations, without trying to make them go away! Trying...

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Learn The Mindfulness Skill Of Engagement

Learn The Mindfulness Skill Of Engagement

LEARN THE MINDFULNESS SKILL OF ENGAGEMENT To be fully present in your life and get the most out of it,  you need to be: aware, attentive and fully engaged in what is happening. There is a simple mindfulness skill, I regularly use with my clients called "engagement."...

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THE SELF ESTEEM TRAP

THE SELF ESTEEM TRAP

DOES STRONG SELF ESTEEM = PEAK PERFORMANCES? Our society encourages us to think in terms of winners and losers, success and failure, champions and underachievers. Experts tell us to: "Think like a winner!" "Winners do this!"  "Losers do that!" If you get hooked by the...

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Sometimes Life Can Feel Unfair

Sometimes Life Can Feel Unfair

If You Believe Life Is Unfair - How To Get Out Of Your Victim Story Most people talk openly about being stressed, but hardly ever talk about their fears. We Are Fearful About... Our finances. Where our relationship is going. Facing an illness. Failing while pursuing a...

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“My worst day in a while turned into my best day in a while today – this was the first time I made a conscious choice to “fight back” whenever I went down the road of trying to figure out what other people thought of me. While there were definitely a lot of rough spots, that was the most fun I’ve possibly ever had with people I didn’t know well, and I didn’t have to fight nearly as hard at the end of the night and just sort of had fun. I also fessed up to what happened today, and was very surprised by the complete absence of shit given by everyone. People literally just laughed it off and moved on.

Thank you for the prod to be honest. I feel infinitely less conflicted now.”

Dan Q