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How To Get Off The Fence In Deciding Whether To Stay Or Go

“You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving.” ~ Anatole France, Poet and Journalist Sitting On the Fence Hurts I do a lot of relationship coaching and people often...

Self-Love: Discover the Love Within and Cultivate Compassion in Your Life

The article explores the idea that love is not something external to be sought but an intrinsic state of being that resides within each of us. By embodying this essence of love, we can naturally radiate authenticity and kindness, creating meaningful connections and a more fulfilling life.

Quieting the Inner Critic: A New Year’s Reflection for Personal Growth

As the New Year approaches, my inner critic often chimes in, pointing out what I didn’t accomplish or where I need to improve. Instead of letting the critic take over, I turn to a practice that reframes resolutions into something more empowering: creating five simple lists.

How to Communicate with Teenagers to Build Confidence and Emotional Safety

This article examines a supportive, growth-focused approach to communication with teens that transcends rigid expectations and mere compliance. It emphasizes helping adolescents challenge limiting beliefs, foster emotional safety and self-inquiry, model personal growth, and provide unconditional support so they can become confident, resilient young adults.

How To Get Off The Fence In Deciding Whether To Stay Or Go

How To Get Off The Fence In Deciding Whether To Stay Or Go

“You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving.” ~ Anatole France, Poet and Journalist Sitting On the Fence Hurts I do a lot of relationship coaching and people often...

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How to Communicate with Teenagers to Build Confidence and Emotional Safety

How to Communicate with Teenagers to Build Confidence and Emotional Safety

This article examines a supportive, growth-focused approach to communication with teens that transcends rigid expectations and mere compliance. It emphasizes helping adolescents challenge limiting beliefs, foster emotional safety and self-inquiry, model personal growth, and provide unconditional support so they can become confident, resilient young adults.

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Why Criticizing Your Partner Happens: 5 Ways to Break the Cycle

Why Criticizing Your Partner Happens: 5 Ways to Break the Cycle

This article explores the underlying reasons behind why we criticize our partner in relationships, revealing how fear, unmet needs, and self-perception drive this behavior. It offers actionable strategies to transform criticism into understanding, fostering deeper connection and growth.

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Discovering and Living in Your Zone of Genius

Discovering and Living in Your Zone of Genius

Your zone of genius is where your greatest talents and passions intersect. It’s the place where you create extraordinary value with ease, feeling deeply engaged and energized. When you’re in your zone of genius, time seems to disappear. You enter a state of flow, and everything you do feels effortless.

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7 Transformative Benefits of Neurofeedback Therapy: Insights from The Body Keeps the Score

7 Transformative Benefits of Neurofeedback Therapy: Insights from The Body Keeps the Score

Explore the transformative potential of neurofeedback therapy, as highlighted in Dr. Bessel van der Kolk’s book The Body Keeps the Score. Neurofeedback is a non-invasive technique that helps individuals regulate their brain activity by providing real-time feedback, making it particularly effective for treating trauma, ADHD, anxiety, and depression. The therapy empowers individuals to take control of their mental health, offering lasting improvements by retraining the brain rather than relying on temporary solutions like medication.

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Can Novelty Reawaken A Relationship?

Can Novelty Reawaken A Relationship?

Novelty is a powerful aphrodisiac. In long-term relationships especially, cultivating novelty, whether through stories or experiences is the key for sustaining passion.

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“My worst day in a while turned into my best day in a while today – this was the first time I made a conscious choice to “fight back” whenever I went down the road of trying to figure out what other people thought of me. While there were definitely a lot of rough spots, that was the most fun I’ve possibly ever had with people I didn’t know well, and I didn’t have to fight nearly as hard at the end of the night and just sort of had fun. I also fessed up to what happened today, and was very surprised by the complete absence of shit given by everyone. People literally just laughed it off and moved on.

Thank you for the prod to be honest. I feel infinitely less conflicted now.”

Dan Q