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How To Get Off The Fence In Deciding Whether To Stay Or Go

“You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving.” ~ Anatole France, Poet and Journalist Sitting On the Fence Hurts I do a lot of relationship coaching and people often...

AI, Work Culture, and Self-Worth: Is It Time to Redefine What Makes Us Valuable?

Can you feel worthy without overworking? This post explores how AI, labor history, and cultural conditioning around productivity impact self-worth—and how coaching helps high achievers break free from burnout and reclaim rest, purpose, and presence.

How Relationship Coaching Helps Modern Singles Overcome Dating Fatigue

In a dating culture filled with swipes, small talk, and emotional burnout, real connection can feel harder than ever to find. As a relationship coach, I work with smart, self-aware clients who are tired of playing games and ready for something meaningful. In this post, I share real stories from clients navigating modern dating with more intention, honesty, and emotional clarity—and offer a new perspective on how to date without losing yourself.

How to Feel Safe with Money: The Surprising Link Between Money Anxiety and Your Nervous System

Most money stress isn’t about numbers—it’s about safety. This powerful blog reveals how healing your nervous system transforms your financial identity, dissolves shame, and helps you embody abundance from the inside out.

What Are Your Marital Distress Pacifiers?

What Are Your Marital Distress Pacifiers?

WHAT ARE YOUR MARITAL DISTRESS PACIFIERS? In his book, The New Rules of Marriage, Terrance Real refers to misery stabilizers or what I call distress pacifiers. They are the things people turn to instead of turning to their partner. They distract themselves from...

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HOW TO HEAL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

HOW TO HEAL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

HOW TO HEAL THE BROKENNESS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP I have been reading The New Rules Of Marriage by Terrence Real. Here is some of his great advice on how to heal in your relationship... Vicious Cycles Most couples find themselves stuck in replays of relationships from...

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FINDING YOUR PURPOSE FORMULA

FINDING YOUR PURPOSE FORMULA

HOW TO FIND  YOUR PURPOSE FORMULA Being an experienced life and relationship coach have so many clients who wonder what their calling or purpose for being here on earth is. I recently read Noble Purpose by William Damon and this is what he says... “The idea of a...

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What Is Motivation?

What Is Motivation?

What Is Motivation And How To Got Out Of The MOTIVATION TRAP To have no motivation is impossible unless you are dead of course. Every action you take requires motivation - you are always intending to achieve something. For instance, when you eat an apple, give a...

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Ways To Improve Motivation

Ways To Improve Motivation

How To Improve Your Motivation And Productivity Do you get excited to start a project or create a new habit? Are you are very motivated to get going on … but after a few days, that feeling dies down, and you start procrastinating. I have devoted a lot of effort to...

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How To Eat To Lose Weight

How To Eat To Lose Weight

How To Eat To Lose Weight Eating is the hardest part of every attempt to lose weight. Eating the right foods, in the right amounts and at the right times based on a diet you are following can be very tedious. Eating Can Be Confusing When you follow someone else's...

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REACHING YOUR PEAK POTENTIAL

REACHING YOUR PEAK POTENTIAL

REACHING YOUR PEAK POTENTIAL START WITH TOTAL ENGAGEMENT In one smooth move, he leaps, aims and shoots.  He is oblivious to the crowds and the ball flies into the basket. Her fingers glide over the strings feeling the music throughout her entire body. You can call it...

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HOW TO FACE MAJOR LIFE CHALLENGES

HOW TO FACE MAJOR LIFE CHALLENGES

HOW TO FACE MAJOR LIFE CHALLENGES 6 Reasons Why It Is Important To Face Life's Challenges: #1 When you face major challenges in your life, if you are guided by your values, you will feel a sense of meaning and purpose. You will have the satisfaction of knowing you are...

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HOW TO HANDLE FEAR

HOW TO HANDLE FEAR

HOW TO HANDLE FEAR When fears shows up I suggest you...   ALLOW IT When you feel fear you go into the fight or flight response, which evolved over millions of years to prepare our body for action. It gives you quick reflexes, the pumping of muscles, heightened...

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Understanding Fear

Understanding Fear

UNDERSTANDING FEAR IN OURSELF AND OTHERS Imagine you were taught that squirrels were the most dangerous animals in the world. Squirrels have razor sharp teeth that could tear you apart. They love nothing more than killing and eating humans. They can jump higher than...

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“My worst day in a while turned into my best day in a while today – this was the first time I made a conscious choice to “fight back” whenever I went down the road of trying to figure out what other people thought of me. While there were definitely a lot of rough spots, that was the most fun I’ve possibly ever had with people I didn’t know well, and I didn’t have to fight nearly as hard at the end of the night and just sort of had fun. I also fessed up to what happened today, and was very surprised by the complete absence of shit given by everyone. People literally just laughed it off and moved on.

Thank you for the prod to be honest. I feel infinitely less conflicted now.”

Dan Q