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How Do I Get Over A Break-Up?

How Do I Get Over A Break-Up?

Learned Useful Tools To Be Happy Again     David T, Gets Help For A Breakup  How Do I Get Over A Break-Up? When a romantic relationship ends, there is hardly anything that feels worse.  I know you feel horrible and that is appropriate right now.  It...

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When Adults Need Time-Outs

When Adults Need Time-Outs

TIME OUTS FOR ADULTS The Best Defense Against Verbal Abuse Is A Formal Time-Out. I am sure you have heard of time-outs and may have used them with your kids. Ironically they also work extremely well with headstrong adults too. When you call for a time out, you are...

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What Are Your Marital Distress Pacifiers?

What Are Your Marital Distress Pacifiers?

WHAT ARE YOUR MARITAL DISTRESS PACIFIERS? In his book, The New Rules of Marriage, Terrance Real refers to misery stabilizers or what I call distress pacifiers. They are the things people turn to instead of turning to their partner. They distract themselves from...

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HOW TO HEAL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

HOW TO HEAL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

HOW TO HEAL THE BROKENNESS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP I have been reading The New Rules Of Marriage by Terrence Real. Here is some of his great advice on how to heal in your relationship... Vicious Cycles Most couples find themselves stuck in replays of relationships from...

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FINDING YOUR PURPOSE FORMULA

FINDING YOUR PURPOSE FORMULA

HOW TO FIND  YOUR PURPOSE FORMULA Being an experienced life and relationship coach have so many clients who wonder what their calling or purpose for being here on earth is. I recently read Noble Purpose by William Damon and this is what he says... “The idea of a...

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What Is Motivation?

What Is Motivation?

What Is Motivation And How To Got Out Of The MOTIVATION TRAP To have no motivation is impossible unless you are dead of course. Every action you take requires motivation - you are always intending to achieve something. For instance, when you eat an apple, give a...

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Ways To Improve Motivation

Ways To Improve Motivation

How To Improve Your Motivation And Productivity Do you get excited to start a project or create a new habit? Are you are very motivated to get going on … but after a few days, that feeling dies down, and you start procrastinating. I have devoted a lot of effort to...

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How To Eat To Lose Weight

How To Eat To Lose Weight

How To Eat To Lose Weight Eating is the hardest part of every attempt to lose weight. Eating the right foods, in the right amounts and at the right times based on a diet you are following can be very tedious. Eating Can Be Confusing When you follow someone else's...

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REACHING YOUR PEAK POTENTIAL

REACHING YOUR PEAK POTENTIAL

REACHING YOUR PEAK POTENTIAL START WITH TOTAL ENGAGEMENT In one smooth move, he leaps, aims and shoots.  He is oblivious to the crowds and the ball flies into the basket. Her fingers glide over the strings feeling the music throughout her entire body. You can call it...

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HOW TO FACE MAJOR LIFE CHALLENGES

HOW TO FACE MAJOR LIFE CHALLENGES

HOW TO FACE MAJOR LIFE CHALLENGES 6 Reasons Why It Is Important To Face Life's Challenges: #1 When you face major challenges in your life, if you are guided by your values, you will feel a sense of meaning and purpose. You will have the satisfaction of knowing you are...

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“My worst day in a while turned into my best day in a while today – this was the first time I made a conscious choice to “fight back” whenever I went down the road of trying to figure out what other people thought of me. While there were definitely a lot of rough spots, that was the most fun I’ve possibly ever had with people I didn’t know well, and I didn’t have to fight nearly as hard at the end of the night and just sort of had fun. I also fessed up to what happened today, and was very surprised by the complete absence of shit given by everyone. People literally just laughed it off and moved on.

Thank you for the prod to be honest. I feel infinitely less conflicted now.”

Dan Q