“I did more or less exactly what you recommended last night when my truck broke down again (after just being repaired for the same issue) – stuck on the side of the 405, sun going down, trailer in tow, transmission fluid all over the road. Much to my great surprise, I was able to largely shrug it off and deal with it without getting upset. It could be a lot worse and as my wife put it, “maybe the universe is just testing you/me.” Anyway, I think you are right about this way of viewing difficult situations, be they at work or at home. Thanks for all the insights.”
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